Should I Quit?

This is an endless topic which surrounding employees in the community nowadays. At the beginning, there will be always a mindset of "I appreciate my job now" or "I would like to stay here as long as I could".  Day by day, there could be something that blocking your career path physically even mentally. I believe most of the workers have the similar consideration when it comes to "joining" and "quitting".

JOIN when you are ready to perform:
1. in your technical skill and relevant knowledge
2. to be a good team player
3. strong execution and analyzation

QUIT when you are ready to challenge:
1. new and different working environment.
2. for more difficulties and toughness
3. for a better career (including salary, come on, it's a fact)


Lastly, please ask yourself "Do you fit with the corporate culture?"
This could be one of the main consideration when comes to quit. We would never know deeply about it's TRUE culture until we spent our working life here for years maybe. You may figure out it's transparency or darkness yet slowly build up a hesitation in your mind to re-judge your employer.

I've tried a quiz on this website which might be giving you some idea on your next move. Here is the result of mine.

Frauded and Crowned

"I suffered from ‘imposter syndrome’ after Harry Potter. I felt like a fraud." by Emma Watson. She is not the only celebrity with this syndrome. Uncertainly, 70% among the successful people afraid of "found out" as know as Impostor Phenomenon. The more they crowned, the more they feel like a fraud. These group of people are having an exotic insecure emotions to pressure their career life perfectly.

Apparently, they ain't cheating but why feel in this way? No one could immune of self doubting when we'd determine on individual perfectionist demand. Impostor Syndrome group might lost their enthusiasm, confidence and strength instead. There could be a fear of losing something like families and friends when failure. They do not want to believe their recognition and avoid from being rewarded. Furthermore, these people are suffering from this convoluted emotion in their mind.

What about a REAL cheater's thinking of being successful? We're not saying the harmful one. Let me illustrate a case: Ladies nowadays have learned to take a "selfie" with certain angle view for a charming picture, even the professional photographer played around with angles, filter effects, colour adjustment to produce a best picture. In other way, they quit from stickler to be more flexible either. They'd rather stay positive and make corrections for a roaring achievements.

Here i've found a simple quiz test:

Cure with Revenge

There was once awhile I've read a book about "psychological of revenge", a very extreme, yet interesting content. I believe that there is no one who never ever think to revenge on something, even an animal does. The book was telling "the emotional of revenge cures spiritual wounds" which brought me to a reverse deliberation.

Historically, it happened among all of the living creatures. Can you imagine how the world will be if revenge was invalid? The wild animals born to possess high offensive power passively to protect their clan. This endless cycle has been played in all kind of communities for all time. There aren't end of elephants' attack news in India. Revenge and the anger against human are part of the factor. 

This complex emotional transformed as time goes by. Children is educated for not being bully in school. It somehow becomes a strategy in office politics. You might doubt it could be a group influence but it is definitely an individual thoughts who affect the surrounding and evolve into group form. After all, to revenge because we are protecting and surviving. Frankly, the parties who are revenging gain the lesser pain and getting closer to their goal.

Have a good judge to position yourself in a healthy revenge nor a negative or extreme reputations while live under pressure. There is another kind of revenge extremely which inflict damage even death to innocents. This should be categorised as criminal, not the "psychological of revenge" anymore. We'd make the best of this complicated emotional to activate our motivation to the success way.

PLEASE DO NOT BLIND YOURSELF WITH THE THOUGHTS OF REVENGE!

The Mysterious of Human Relationship

Sounds psychological. I'm not a philosopher nor psychologist. Truly, I'm just a tiny blogger who love to write-and-share like some of you. The below scenarios illustrate a new definition of “mysterious of relationship".

Picture I:

There was a colleague of mine who I'd dislike her so much. She has an unpleasant voice which very irritating especially when she was laughing loudly. My peaceful mind was affected badly. Her "melodies" could woke me up while I was taking a nap during rest hour. 

Few months later, she has been transferred to my department and we worked together in certain project. She was initiative approaching me most of the time and I've accepted her interactive gradually. Hereafter, she submitted her resignation letter. It was so unexpectedly that I felt a little unwilling to not seeing her in my following working days. 

Picture II:

My young brother frequently travelling to outstation for working and unfortunately there was an car accident in neighbour state. I thought this could be just ended awkwardly with heavy compensation fee or quarrel in the police station perhaps. Exceptionally, what I was guessing did not happen. My brother and the driver pledged to be very good friends. Nowadays, they still keep in touch and visit each other if there is a passing by.

That's about it.

Why Should You Blog

Let's go back to the start up,  "Why should we Blog?"

Subject to personal will, there AIN'T formula or specific answer for this question. I want to keep my life busy perhaps? I need something that could passionate me? Or earning some extra money? Whatever it is, there could be a multiple emotional reasons. You need one too, only for yourselves.

Each article you've wrote keeps up your emotions of that moment silently. I had a Blog as a diary with hundreds of pages which described my vacations and foods exploration. Well, do I learn something? Not really, because I AIN'T taking myself into writing, it's more like some recording in letters.

"Think Before You Do, No Matter What"

Be Informative. Make use of your Blog to contribute more info to the public.

Example:

• High quality photography and location details in your food and travelling Blog.
• Unboxing video and specifications of digital gadgets article.
• Clear instruction and step-by-step demonstration  for all tutorials.

Be Creative. It is not about how fancy your page looks like. The creativity here reflects on key content of your article. Be smart and intelligent on your inspiration research.

Willing to Learn. Just learn everything in terms of your writing skill, read the right books, stay up positive mind and know more about yourselves.

Let Go of Fear. Please never expecting to earn money from Blog. Comparatively, there are more than 150 millions Blogs in the world. What a terrible figure. You gained experience which only belongs to you from your first writing. Nothing to afraid of being tiny right?

Feels Like Giving Up. Depression and motion of no confidence might challenge your mindset. Go back to "why you started".  Be strong to demolish it.